Seeing her like that bring big smile, joy and warmth to my heart. To exaggerate, I can almost have my tears at the corner of my eyes. Rejoicing her happiness was happened back there.

Rejoicing to see what “yours” is common, like parents to their child. Rejoicing to other that entirely not related to you when they are happy is the a whole new level. To rejoice of your enemy’s joy is supreme. To do that, you require universal and altruistic love that became part of your nature.

Most of humans are, of course me too, have egoistic attitude towards all aspects of our lives. Shifting to the universal and altruistic attitude requires practice and letting go our ego. Many social activities are manifestation of such a practice. You won’t be able to change your point of view and your ego in one night, it requires gradual practices.

Conflicts are clash of egos. I don’t know whether conflicts are still there or not if we all able to rejoice to other’s joy. But I have deep confidence that at least the will be less conflicts exist.

When we all have such an attitude? Will we start? Why don’t we start small by each of ourselves first? Will you?

She was planned to get her wedding next month. Yesterday, one of her best friend — let’s call her S — asked her to talk. She thought S wanted to have a regular girls chit chat but she was wrong.

S said to her in desperation that S is pregnant — S wasn’t married. S said she was pregnant her-husband-to-be’s child. Let me clear this, S was having sex with her-husband-to-be and S is pregnant now. She said she was shocked and together they went to the her-husband-to-be’s apartment to clear things out.

Things went complicated. S is her best friend, she was devastated that her-husband-to-be having affair with her best friend all these time. He said he clicked just right with S after a year ago she introduced S to him.

She doesn’t want S to undergo an abortion and yet her marriage is just within a month with all preparations and invitations worked out. What would you do if you were in her position?

I’ll share mine first. I’ll let them go and make him marry S. I’ll go on my way. I can’t trust such a man anymore, soon or later he’ll do it again and the baby need a father. Life goes on.

Your thought on this?